Updated: Oct 20, 2020
As a full time Melbourne marriage Celebrant, I’ve declared hundreds of lovers “Husband & Wife,"
However, my primary goal in joining the wedding industry was to be a part of the #marriageequality movement in Australia.
You see, I grew up in a family where both of my parents are gay... (Long story! Want to grab a drink & chat?) As such, I very much see myself as part of the Queer Community.
I couldn't wait to be a part of bringing all couples together, regardless of sexual preference or gender. Thankfully, on the 7th December 2017, after a nation-wide postal vote, legislation was passed to allow any two people wanting to tie the knot in Australia have the right to do so. Amen.
I married Sarah & Kasey surrounded by all their family and friends
So What Do I Pronounce YOU?
Which brings me to my point - the marriage ceremony! In order to conduct a legal marriage in Australia, there are just 118 words, (I just counted) that must be said by the celebrant and the parties getting married. These are: The Monitum & The Legal Vows. Everything else is just icing on the (wedding) cake.
Naturally, a great celebrant should ensure these words reflect you both in every way, make you laugh and cry in the right places and leave your guests on a high, ready for the Festival of (your) Love to follow.
My favourite part of creating a wedding is finding out every last detail about my couples and what has brought them to the moment where they're making vows to last a lifetime.
Angela & Lisa's ceremony was emotional and finished on a high
Photos by Rom Anthonis
Declaration of Marriage
If you wish to conclude your ceremony with a 'Declaration of Marriage," here are some suggestions that have worked at some of my ceremonies in the past:
Celebrant: "By the love that has brought you here today and by the vows you have pledged, it is with great pleasure, and with the power vested in me by the Attorney General of Australia,
that I now pronounce you…
Wife & Wife
Husband & Husband
Spouse & Spouse
Wifey & Wifey
Married at Last
Partners for Life
Partners in Crime
I now present to you, the newly married (Name & Name)
I now present to you the newest married couple in Australia!
If you have any more to add to my list, I would love to hear from you HERE!
I loved telling Michael & Will's story to their family
Photos by LJM Photography
Kate Morgan is a Melbourne Celebrant & Advocate for Marriage Equality
SHE / HER / HERS / HERSELF
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